His ex will not leave me alone! I am on the verge on insanity!I am 25- this should not be happening?
I have been with my now husband(just got married) for nine years, we are 25, we have two kids together I had my second eight weeks ago. We have our lives together Im an RN and hes training to be an electrician. So all is well w us.
BUT… About a year 1/2 ago we split up for about 6 months. He was seeing a girl for about 3 months of that. We went on to get back together and shortly after I became pregnant. This girl is 31 years old- i should say woman i suppose, found out i was pregnant and has been touturing me ever since. She found me on myspace ( how i keep in touch w old friends) and tried to be friendly and write me messages about every day and always commenting on how beautiful i am. Got a little creepy so I stopped answering her.
Then I had my daughter, she wrote congratulations and stuff, so i thanked her and left it at that. then she begins writing messages about how shes still in love with my husband. A few days later she goes on to say she f*****ed him the day my daughter was born ( that would be a nice trick, since i was in surg and he stayed the whole time) but anyway, i still ignored.
Then she started texting him that i was cheating on him. And she would kill herself if he didnt talk to her. Keep in mind this nutjob has her own children and is the process of her own divorce.
And it goes on to she got ahold of my number, shes been doing the restrcted calls and texting me that she loves him and wishes i was dead. they would be perfect together.oh- and she drives by our house daily.
So we went to the police, they went to her house and warned her about all this and she complied. FOR TWO DAYSS…
So she started the myspace crap again tonight. i guess im gonna have to delete it because of her which is sad cause i can t take it.
I really dont know what to do, if shes not scared of the cops what else is there? And why is she doing this to me? I seriously have not done anything to warrant this……. It has been hell, and its just making this harder between me and my husband cause I get so frustrated and pissed at him when i know its really not his fault. please give me advice!!!
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sussex electric
Aww hun – i’m sorry – you’ve done all the right things to try and rid her of your life – but yeah she sounds like a real nutcase!!!
Has your Hubby Said anything to her – i mean like, has he said to her F*@k Off? If he hasnt maybe he should, but i suggest you be there with him whenever he has to be around her – that way you’ll know that she cant make up any lie.
Maybe threaten her with ringing a social worker on her – a woman that unstable – how is she taking adequate care of her kids when she spends all her time harrassing you?
sussex electrics
Wow she is crazy she needs to leave you guys alone. i would delete the myspace and block her # from my phone also if she keeps at this i would get a warant but you should remember that this isnt your husbands fault that he had no idea she was a crazy b***h. or you could send her message telling her that she needs to let this go and worry about her kids and maybe she’ll understand (probably not though) so i would file a police report again. but dont let her control your life and destroy your family. goodluck and congratulations on your daughter!
brighton electrician
Well…………I say you whip her *** and give her a good talking to. Tell her to back the **** off and get on with her life. Tell her she needs to be worrying about Johnny and the rest of her kids instead of some man. And if **** gets worst I **** to say it but maybe it wasn’t meant to be. Honey you are too young for this ****! Girl you got to much to live for.
brighton electrical
She sounds like she is going to continue to, not only with myspace. I would go back to the police and tell them she is still harrassing you. That is against the law. I would also look into in further to see if there isn’t something you dont know, like if your husband is still seeing her on the side without your knowledge. It happens. They tell you one thing and tell them something else just to string them along. But i could be wrong. But i would keep reporting everything she does as little as it may seem or as big as soon as it happens. Don’t delete your myspace either, you can use it as proof to the police. And phone calls save, try to record. And text messages whatever proof is key to get her to stop.