His ex will not leave me alone! I am on the verge on insanity!I am 25- this should not be happening?
I have been with my now husband(just got married) for nine years, we are 25, we have two kids together I had my second eight weeks ago. We have our lives together Im an RN and hes training to be an electrician. So all is well w us.
BUT… About a year 1/2 ago we split up for about 6 months. He was seeing a girl for about 3 months of that. We went on to get back together and shortly after I became pregnant. This girl is 31 years old- i should say woman i suppose, found out i was pregnant and has been touturing me ever since. She found me on myspace ( how i keep in touch w old friends) and tried to be friendly and write me messages about every day and always commenting on how beautiful i am. Got a little creepy so I stopped answering her.
Then I had my daughter, she wrote congratulations and stuff, so i thanked her and left it at that. then she begins writing messages about how shes still in love with my husband. A few days later she goes on to say she f*****ed him the day my daughter was born ( that would be a nice trick, since i was in surg and he stayed the whole time) but anyway, i still ignored.
Then she started texting him that i was cheating on him. And she would kill herself if he didnt talk to her. Keep in mind this nutjob has her own children and is the process of her own divorce.
And it goes on to she got ahold of my number, shes been doing the restrcted calls and texting me that she loves him and wishes i was dead. they would be perfect together.oh- and she drives by our house daily.
So we went to the police, they went to her house and warned her about all this and she complied. FOR TWO DAYSS…
So she started the myspace crap again tonight. i guess im gonna have to delete it because of her which is sad cause i can t take it.
I really dont know what to do, if shes not scared of the cops what else is there? And why is she doing this to me? I seriously have not done anything to warrant this……. It has been hell, and its just making this harder between me and my husband cause I get so frustrated and pissed at him when i know its really not his fault. please give me advice!!!
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Filed under: Mental Health
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brighton electric
Wow. My advice is to keep bringing the police into this. That is extremely scary. Maybe eventually they’ll arrest her for such behavior. She sounds like she has some mental issues if she is THAT obsessive.
sussex electrics
this is not your fault!
print off every thing from myspace that she says, take your phone with saved text messages to the police and then get a restraining order against her. If she contacts you again, you call the police and they take her to jail. JUST DO IT!!! The police do take this thing seriously if you have proof!
sussex electrics
Block her on my space and everyone that she’s bothering should get a restraining order on her.
brighton electrician
if you want to talk my yahoo messenger is livebythegospel
sussex electric
Went through the exact same thing only my BF’s ex called him at 3am, yeaaaaah…that wasn’t working for me. She acted like she was in highschool. I got the texts, prank calls from her work, my car got keyed, etc. If you’re getting calls and texts you can definitely involve the police because you’ve told her to stop and she continues to do it. If you can’t get her for harassment, you pay 60$ to get a no contact order through the court and if she violates it she gets locked up. It’ll be the best 60$ you’ve ever spent believe me. Block her on Myspace so she can’t contact you there. If she’s causing you so much stress that you’re getting rid of things that were entertaining to you and disrupting your normal life I would definitely take legal action. She needs to grow up!
sussex electric
Can change your number. Yes, what a hassle. Can block her phone number if you have call blocking, and there is an option that will not allow private numbers to come across caller ID.
If there is a no contact order in place, it does give the police grounds for arresting her if she tries in anyway to contact you.
This is creepy….
sussex electrician
You should delete your myspace account and then make a NEW account and make it private so that people who arent on your friends list cant msg you or even look at your account.
She sounds crazy. You should keep a record of all her harrassment. Print out comments and emails she has sent you. I would contact the police and go before a judge and try to get a restraining order.
I also suggest your husband immediatley change his cell number, even if it is an extra charge. Change all phone numbers (put your house number as unlisted).
Maybe move if you can also. This woman sounds crazy and she clearly wont go away. You need to hide from her and hide your family from her. Your husband picked a total nut to cheat with. I would give him hell about it also. He created this mess.
sussex electrics
get a restraining order.
my husbands ex did the same crazy crap to me
followed me around.
came to my job
spread rumors about me….
,…..its called jealousy.
ignore her.block her.change numbers. change your mypsace.
she will hopfully realize your husband is yours and she will move on with her pathetic exsistence and find a man of her own to torture.
sounds like this ***** needs to do a stint in a mental hospital….bad.
you worry about your child and keep calling the police. if they keep speaking to her, and going to her house she’ll get it eventually that she needs to be an adult and move on
im really sorry you have to go thru this hon